When you come to grips with the fact that many things in life are out of your control, how might that affect the choices you feel ARE in your control?
Maybe a feeling of relief? A peace that what you’re choosing is part of a bigger plan that you’re not fully responsible for?
That’s what I recommend. The choices that we feel are in our control are just that: a FEELING of control. Don’t forget that. Once we come to grips with the seeming conundrum of having to make choices for our direction in life, knowing full well that we’re not 100% in the drivers seat, it makes for a much better ride.
There’s more to this story, but think about that for a while.